I'm officially sorry we let Muffin watch Disney movies & videos. I walked in through the door yesterday, and she told me that she was in love, she wouldn't be happy until she found her true love, etc. - in other words, she was parroting what she's seen in the Disney media. First time she did this I freaked out, told her she was too young to be in love, which confused her, she thought I was upset because I reacted like I did (my bad). Note to self - next time pretend its nothing so it hopefully goes away!
SO, if anyone has an ideas of role models for her that are NOT simpering princesses waiting for their prince, please share!